TIME MANAGEMENT

SECRET OF TIME MANAGEMENT

Now it was about to be revealed to me. I’m listening on the edge of my chair as Jim Rohn was about to share the best kept secret.

He had discovered it and now he was going to reveal it.

Here is his discovery!

Rich people have about 24 hours in a day and poor people had 24 hours in a day. Both have equal time but it’s the outcome that is different.

So what made the difference? Time management.

I don’t like to use the word time management. You can only manage something you can control. You can’t control time. You can’t add more hours or control what’s going to happen. I like to use the term time maximizing.

Maximizing that 24 hours. Time is more valuable then money. It’s your most important asset. We all start the day with 24 hours. No more...No less.

It’s what we do with that 24 hours that will shape our lives. Once it’s gone, you can’t go back and get it. You can always get more money but never more time. There is no time bank to lend you time. You invest it, spend it or waste it.

The moment you begin to think of time as precious, a resource and that it has a price, the richer you’ll become.

Here are ten suggestions to help you start maximizing your time:

Learn to say NO
This is the most effective time maximizing word.

When you work—work and when you play—play
Don’t mix the two. Give it your all while working but once your business obligations are done, take the time to play.

Know your peak hours
Discover your most productive time. Schedule your most demanding business activities during your peak hours.

The telephone is for your convenience
There is no law that says you have to answer the phone or give out your cell phone number. If you don’t have a secretary, use caller ID, answering machine or voice mail to screen you calls. Return them at your convenience. This applies to both business and family time.

Use one calendar - Day Planner
Make your day planner the central location for your information. Keep track of business expenses, both personal and business appointment, telephone conversations, meeting notes, to do list etc.

Know the value of an hour
Take the total amount of hours you work a week and multiply them by 50. Now take your current yearly income and divide it by those hours. That is your hourly worth.

For example: You work 30 hours a week. 30 x 50 = 1500. Your income is $100,000. Divide $100,000 by 1500 and you get $56.67. Your working hour is worth $56.57. Repeat this for your desired income.

Hire somebody or delegate it
Are you really saving money doing it yourself or is costing you money?

Have a game plan
Always plan your day before you start. This is going to take great discipline. Once you’ve mastered that move to planning your week, then a month, 3 months, 6 month, and than a year.

Manage Interruptions
Put a do not disturb sign on your door. If some on insist on interrupting you with a problem, have them write it out with 3 possible solutions before seeing you. Don’t forget to turn the TV off. TV is a great time interrupter. Actually it’s a great time stealer.

Organize your work space and home
Disorganization and messiness can weigh you down. You’ll get more done if your organized. This may take more time up front to set it up but will save time in the long run.

Either you run your day or your day will run you, which do you choose?

5tips

Berikut adalah 5 tips bagaimana berurusan dgn lelaki ajnabi. Tips2 ni telah dikongsi oleh seorang sahabat yg amat disenangi oleh kaum wanita dan disegani oleh kaum lelaki. Semoga dgn mengamalkan perbatasan perhubungan ini, akan lebih suci bagi hati kita dan bagi hati mereka. Sama2 lah kita menjaga hati. :)(4 u n 4 me harap2 dapat di pratikkan)

1. Elakkan berurusan dgn lelaki. Kalau ada peluang utk minta tolong dgn perempuan, mintalah tolong dari perempuan. Disebabkan limitation kemampuan perempuan seperti repair kereta, repair laptop dan lain2, maka terpaksalah minta tolong dari org lelaki.

2. Kalau terpaksa contact orang lelaki, gunakanlah medium perantaraan dalam bentuk tulisan, seperti SMS, email, atau nota kecil. Gunakan perkataan2 formal, bukan bahasa pasar. Contoh: Maaf, (bukan sorrie..), Terima kasih (bukan time kaceh). Lagi satu takyah la buat smiley face ke (^_^), gelak2 ke (hihihih), dan lain2 yg kurang berfaedah.(oooo next i try)

Elakkan bercakap melalui telefon kalau belum desperate. Ini kerana suara wanita amat lunak dan boleh menggetarkan jiwa lelaki. Sampai Allah pun kena sound kat org pempuan supaya keraskan suara. Rujuk qur'an surah Al-Ahzab ayat 32:

"Wahai isteri2 nabi, kamu bukanlah seperti perempuan2 lain jika kamu bertaqwa. Maka jgn lah lemah lembutkan suara dlm berbicara, sehingga bangkit nafsu org yg ada penyakit dlm hatinya, tetapi ucapkanlah perkataan yg baik.

Kalau rasa ayat ni ditujukan kepada isteri2 nabi je, lembut2kanlah suaramu dan lihatlah kesannya.

Apabila arahan ni diberi kepada isteri2 nabi, sepatutnya kita juga menyahut seruan tu utk mencapai darjat yg sama seperti mereka, darjat wanita2 yg bertaqwa, dan darjat wanita2 yg terpilih. Best kan? :)

3. Tundukkan hati : Apabila terpaksa berurusan dgn lelaki, kita sepatutnya merasa bulu roma kita meremang, kerana takut pada Allah. Kita sangat takut sekiranya disebabkan kita, lelaki ni tertarik kepada kita. Waktu berdepan dgn lelaki2 tu, byk2 lah berdoa, "Ya Allah, jgnlah Kau buatkan lelaki ini tertarik kepadaku. Jauhkan pandangannya dari panahan syaitan."

4. Tundukkan pandangan. Jangan tertipu dgn matapelajaran communication skills yg kita belajar kat uni dulu; "make eye contact with the person you're talking to". bende tu applicable kalau kita becakap dgn org yg sama jantina sahaja. :)(ni ak slalu lupe i tot x kira gender)

Kalau ada eye contact dgn org yg berlainan jantina, kita akan mendapati theory "dari mata turun ke hati" tu betul. so, be careful dgn pandangan mata.

Para sahabat dulu pun, Allah perintahkan supaya tahan pandangan apabila mereka berurusan dgn isteri2 nabi.

Cuba rujuk surah al-ahzab ayat 53; "....Apabila kamu meminta sesuatu dari isteri2 nabi, mintalah dari belakang tabir. Itu lebih suci bagi hatimu dan hati mereka.."

Kita bukan disuruh membawa tabir ke mana2 kita pergi. kalau susah sgt nk jaga mata, tutuplah pandangan dgn buku ke, ngan file ke. Kita lihat betapa Allah sgt ambil berat masalah hati para sahabat n isteri2 nabi supaya mereka tak tewas ke dalam kemungkaran. Kalau kita pun nk jadi sehebat diorang, kenalah buat apa yg diorang buat. Takkan nk tunggu Allah sebut nama kita dlm Qur'an baru nk buat kot.

Cth: "Wahai Cik Hasni.. taatilah suamimu..." Isk2. tak layak nye..(iskk btol gak tu)

5. Cepatkan urusan. Ni mungkin applicable kepada students/ org yg dah kerja yg terpaksa berurusan dgn team mate lelaki. Dah tak boleh elak, dia je team mate kita. So, apa2 kerja yg nk dibuat bersama, buat je la keje tu. takyah nak borak2, tanya hal peribadilah, gelak2 lah, buat lawaklah.. tak perlu tak perlu. Siapkan keje cepat2, then pergi. Perbincangan buatlah di tempat yg proper dan berurusanlah secara professional.(its hard apabila da sebati dgn kehidupan seharian kita)

~from http://islamcintaku.blogspot.com

ranting and ranting

kenapa jadi manusia tak pernah puas???
getting frustrated over my life..i supposed for age 23 my life start getting stable but its not.. i really hate mayB cause kelalaian my self, sering melupakan tuhan how life mahu diberkati n diredhai. still unemployed after 4 month convo its like i'm not putting any effort to apply for any jobs, sumtym i really feels i had it enuf but keep remembering my self my is not juz 4 my self. dats for career..another thinggy is bout relationship.ummm sumtimes wen i'm alone it juz me feel wanna settledown but heck i dun have anythg 4 dat to b true > no candidate, no income, not enuf ilmu ddada utk jd wife n bkal ibu, so it make relationship impossible rite now..i really hate my self too ramai kawan lelaki, i know it wrong to went out and touching wif ajnabi guy yet i still go..rendah nye iman..my cloth i know it revealing yet still wear it. i really wish to berubah but yet i dunno y i can't..sesungguhnya kecintaan ak kepada dunia terlalu banyak berbanding cinta akan Allah.rasa berdosanya diri. doa ku agar diberikan ak hidayah untuk berubah. if possible i want my jodoh wif guy dat can show and guide me to the right way of life. but den people say lelaki yang baik untuk perempuan yang baik...but i'm not i juz hopeless girl dat too mush weekness..i wanna b gud muslimah..gud daughter..gud wife..gud mother insyallah. Ya Allah kurnia kan la aku lelaki yang mampu membimbingku, ikhlas mengasihiku kerana mu ya allah dan mampu menerima aku apa adanya